How can you find out if your boyfriend is married?
When your in love and thinking seriously about making a commitment and even marriage, the thought of delving into your mans skeleton cupboard to find out if he's everything you've hoped for is probably the last thing on your mind. But how do you know whether he's already married or not? He might even have a criminal record and not told you about it. You owe it to yourself to do a little background check on him before it's too late.
If you have mutual friends then talk to them
No one knows a person better than their closest friends so if you happen to know the same people or you know someone who does then go and talk to them. Buy them a few drinks and grill them about your new lover.
Most people will be happy to talk to you about their friends but if they appear to be reluctant to answer your questions then this could mean that they have something they don't want you to hear. If this is the case then start to get suspicious.
Talk to your new boyfriend
Your new boyfriend has the answers to all your questions so you should ask them, all of them. People love to talk about themselves and will be happy to give you the answers. Unless they have something to hide of course in which case they might seem evasive or inconsistent. If this happens then you should start to worry.
You should always talk to your partner of course but if you don't have any mutual friends to talk to then it's so much more important that you do talk to him directly. It's so simple and yet many people get blinded by romance and forget to do it.
Is he being consistent
Finding out if someone is lying to you can be easier than you think.
The trick is that you don't have to detect every lie that they tell you. You only have to find one lie to throw doubt on everything else that they say. For instance if they tell you that they are 35 years old but you know that they have a 25 year old daughter then they could be lying. If he tells you that he's an airline pilot but seems to lack knowledge of some airports then this could also be a clue.
If your lover can lie to you about one thing then he can lie to you about anything so beware. At the very least you should do a background check on them before you go any further.
Get a background check
You can get a background check done on someone very easily now thanks to public records and the efforts of a few web sites that collect all the information together. These web sites work tirelessly to build massive databases containing all the legally obtainable information that can be found. You can search these databases for a small fee and you are almost guaranteed to find something interesting about the person you are interested in. Give it a try. I did and I had fun doing it.